Comments on: Perspective

By: Betty F./George F.

Betty F./George F. — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 13:28:50 +0000

Dear Stephanie,

I found your tribute to David when I was attempting to find an obituary for him. It is a wonderful tribute and beautifully written. David was a special person, and it was not a surprise to know what a positive influence he was in your life. Our deepest sympathies -

By: Julie B

Julie B — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 01:16:20 +0000

The picture you posted could not be more beautiful, capturing someone so clearly loving and loved. Although he left you too soon, it is clear your step-father clearly had an immense positive impact on the world and the people in his life. I am so glad he was there for you, your brother and your mom. As sad as this is, I feel enriched and heartened reading about his outlook and the life that he lived. Thanks for sharing this glimpse in your honest and insightful way. I am reminded that living openly and generously is the best legacy one can have.

By: Cecilia London

Cecilia London — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:57:39 +0000

Thank you Stephanie for those lovely words about David. He was my cousin, and the only member of my father’s family, beside my sister, of my generation that I was close to and wanted to stay connected to. Sweet David. His optimism was amazing. He was able to see the good. He truely listened and cared and I did love him. I’m so sorry he had to leave too soon, but I am glad he had such a giving loving life. Take care Stephanie, and give your mom a kiss for me. Love. Cecilia
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By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:33:37 +0000

I feel your devastation, but also your gratitude that David entered your world in the first place. I know all too well how difficult it can be to accept someone else’s children in your life, and to love and to guide them with magnanimity and love. He seems to have done it so well, and what a tribute to a “stepdad” that you would write about him with such clarity and passion. I’m sorry for your loss, Steph, for your whole family’s loss. It feels as tremendous as all that you enjoyed and gained from by having him in your life in the first place.

By: Ronni

Ronni — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 22:45:14 +0000

wow, wow, wow. i have no doubt that david is smiling from above & has the same admiration for you as well. these are truly beautiful, poignant words. xox

By: Laurie

Laurie — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 22:43:12 +0000

Steph,

This is concurrently, moving and humorous despite the occasion. Truly amazing feat, considering the circumstance. Again, so sorry for your loss.

By: alanb

alanb — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 20:36:41 +0000

David is now making his way without illness, pain or worry… without fatigue, discomfort or hindrance of any stripe. Unlike the rest of us, he is wholly at peace and free of all suffering.

As long as you and your mom continue to remember your stepfather in a loving, happy positive light, he will have achieved precisely the sort of ‘immortality’ that most of us living humans waste an inordinate amount of time and energy pursuing.

All the best to all of you…!!!

By: Demetra

Demetra — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 19:53:02 +0000

I’ve been through this so I know how hard it is.
I feel like I’ve gotten to know a piece of you reading this truly beautiful tribute. Thanks for sharing his story!

By: Erin

Erin — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 17:49:54 +0000

I’m so sorry for your loss, Steph. Your stepfather sounds like he was an amazing man, who really found the sweetness in life (in every sense of the word). My thoughts are with you and your family. Big hugs.

By: Harlene

Harlene — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:05:14 +0000

Glad for a brief glimpse into such a great man. I agree, a beautiful tribute.