Comments on: Thankfully Formerly http://www.formerlyhot.com/2010/07/thankfully-formerly/ The tween site for adults Wed, 23 May 2012 09:45:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Nadya http://www.formerlyhot.com/2010/07/thankfully-formerly/comment-page-1/#comment-3364 Nadya Fri, 02 Jul 2010 07:22:17 +0000 http://www.formerlyhot.com/?p=2011#comment-3364 Aren't we all. How ridiculous it seems know to have been willing to undergo a serious extreme make over of character, looks, personality - anything! - just to keep the guy. I look at the guys that I use to feel I would be best for and who I knew could love me and without whom I would most certainly have died. Well, I am still alive and magnificently so. And a lot of those guys turned out to be really perfect for someone else (really perfect!), or jerks, or non-growers (i.e. guys that get stuck in high school or student mode and mindset and never develop or grow personally and mentally). I love my life. I love wonderful husband. And then I experienced the day that my husband turned out to be the guy that another girl thought would be perfect for her, me being the ultimate b**h for having him. And I remember thinking to myself 'how sad' comfortably ignoring the times that I was that person... Aren’t we all. How ridiculous it seems know to have been willing to undergo a serious extreme make over of character, looks, personality - anything! - just to keep the guy. I look at the guys that I use to feel I would be best for and who I knew could love me and without whom I would most certainly have died. Well, I am still alive and magnificently so. And a lot of those guys turned out to be really perfect for someone else (really perfect!), or jerks, or non-growers (i.e. guys that get stuck in high school or student mode and mindset and never develop or grow personally and mentally).

I love my life. I love wonderful husband. And then I experienced the day that my husband turned out to be the guy that another girl thought would be perfect for her, me being the ultimate b**h for having him. And I remember thinking to myself ‘how sad’ comfortably ignoring the times that I was that person…

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